spanglish expressions from someone who loves speaking her mind fearlessly & trying to make the world a more beautiful place, one word at a time.
Nov 27, 2010
Gay Sex Vs. Straight Sex
Gay Sex Vs. Straight Sex
There, i said it!
my personal opinion, later......
Nov 23, 2010
circumstances.
How is it that a simple circumstance can change everything?
circumstance
▶noun
- 1 a fact or condition connected with or relevant to an event or action.
we all have those moments when we have this mental struggle and do this auto-analyzing assembly with ourselves where we try to conclude if our actions, thoughts, or future plans are right or wrong. see… when it comes to right or wrong, bad or good; all actions and thoughts are relative just because of the circumstance you’re in…
let’s say for example, you like someone, and this person happens to be taken… and in taken I mean, in a relationship. So, we think about various factors:
-how serious is this relationship?
-how much do I like this person?
-what is the relationship I have with this person’s other half?
-what do I want from this affaire?
-can I control it?
-why am I in this triangle?
-am I respecting myself?
etc. etc. etc. So, when it comes to myself, I observe the situation and circumstance, but in the end, we just do whatever goes, whatever we want, whatever we feel… until we get into trouble, or something happens… something more serious than a casual calling sex kissing adrenaline hiding scary but exciting affaire.. like, your feelings get involved, they’re feelings get involved, jealousy starts knocking on your door, you want them to choose, you meet someone else, the other person doesn’t like to share you even though you’re sharing them… blah blah blah.
Let’s say you do like this person, a lot, it grows with time and quality moments, and you’re friends with the other half… ouch. you start going out with them, staying at their house when necessary, gaining trust, having exciting moments when you bump into person, and all those nice sexy things that end in DRAMA! so, what to do? how can you overthink the circumstance and end things? forget about your wants, needs & desires and do what is morally right? tough one huh? I just think life is so relative that you can have everything and anything you want in your favor and get away with it… yes, it is possible. hmph… we are so convenient and sexually uncontrollable creatures….
to be continued………